Commission Availability
Now booking commissions for late summer! August-October now available, email srueterart@gmail.com for inquires xx
New In The Studio: 10x10 Series
Figure + Form x Iridescent Collection
For the start of my summer collection, I've been exploring the interaction between six different pieces, all 10x10 in size. Because I hardly ever work in a square format, I knew this would be an exciting challenge for me, especially when focusing on the human form. Through the initial sketches, I knew I had wanted these forms to remain bold in contrast and retain a cropped composition. Each pose in this square cropping leads your eye to focus on a different narrative, telling a story about the figure's intentions and emotions.
Originally, I had created all six pieces as figures. Something felt off, and honestly a little boring. Vague. When I hung them as a group, they hardly spoke to me. As soon as I become uninterested in a project, I know it calls for change.
During this same time frame, I had been working through an abstract commission based off of the iridescent paintings. I began daydreaming about expressive and figurative overlapping, working together to create a harmony within a space. I grabbed my gesso and sorted out which three I would be re-working, and immediately felt a stronger connection to the project.
"These high-contrast, expressive little boxes are diverse, yet coincide. There are brushstrokes which embody movement, yet also stillness. Layers of black, white and grey that allow you to form a relationship to each piece."
The Figure and Form x Iridescent Collection release date will be announced soon. For inquires, please email srueterart.com
Photography Collaboration: Hed Hi Media & Marybeth Thomas
Collaboration is key.
"I had the pleasure of meeting Sam at a recent collaboration. Working with her led me to her Instagram, where I discovered her inspiring art. I'm constantly trying to push my creative boundaries, so when the opportunity arrived where I had some open time in a studio I knew exactly who I wanted to work with. Sam and I met to nail down the concept of the shoot. After that, we were able to secure the best models that we could ever dream of through the Overlap App. I thought it would be difficult to find nude figure models in Charleston, but I was so inspired when we found the models that we did - with less than 24 hours notice for 3 of the 4 models! This project has been my favorite project to date, and I look forward to doing more collaborations in the future!"
-Mary Beth Thomas
A few weeks ago, I began conversation with photographer and friend, Mary Beth Thomas, in regards to a care-free lifestyle photography shoot. Marybeth and I had met several months back on a previous set and clicked instantly.
In the process of planning, she mentioned that she had a great rental photography studio option downtown that we could use to capture inspiration for my latest figurative series. Immediately and enthusiastically, I agreed.
Prior to the shoot, we had a meeting to bring these visions to life. Mary Beth captured them flawlessly.
My latest collection of work symbolizes the strength of the female human form. In my head, I was hoping to use models of all physical stature, in hopes of breaking so called "beauty" barriers and boundaries. The women who donated their time and vulnerably posed in order for this collaboration to take place, all hold a very special place in my heart. Each of them extraordinary, brilliant, beautiful. I cannot begin to explain what a humbling experience this shoot was for both artistic and personal truths. Collaboration will always open doors, teach valuable lessons, and even establish new friendship.
Figurative Inspiration: This Week's Sketchbook Pages
Bringing the human form to life on paper has always intrigued me. Capturing motion and gestures, attending to form and bone structure-- working to portray a strong sense of energy within the body has always been my goal. Correct proportions and volume; from the pelvis to the shin, all coinciding to create gravity and power on a flat page. Below are some compositions from my recent sketchbook studies; ranging from 45 seconds to 2 minutes. Timing each exercise with gestural drawings prevents me from overworking-- the mind is free.
What's New In The Studio: Iridescent Collection
The main goals while creating this collection: deep layers filled with texture, viewer interaction, and moody color palettes.
2016 Reflection: Five Word Exercise
I find it to be so interesting when people say, "not much has changed for me this year." When a full 12 months pass, it's nearly impossible to say that no change has occurred. It can be extremely challenging to sit and reflect on your year. Slowly, each passing day lead to yet another occurrence. Each decision you make lead to a new consequence. It is impossible for the human spirit to remain the same. External and internal forces manipulate who we are, how we think, the way we go about our daily lives. With each new year that approaches, reflecting on major events in our lives can help us to draw a connection to all that has changed. How these experiences have impacted who we are, even if we don't truly feel a major change has occurred. Each year, I spend a few weeks contemplating on the hardest lessons that have been learned over the previous 12 months.
Five words. Each year, there are five key words that come full circle. Relevant through it all. The longer I spent on this past year, the more I quickly came to the realization that I have experienced incredible changes in all areas of my life..
1. Value
Mmm. What is the first thing you think about when you hear this word? Level of importance? Worth? Something that may hold weight, proven to be beneficial. This word has lingered on my mind over the course of the last year-- constantly. My self worth. My art. My greater purpose. What value do I actually hold? What makes little old me important to others, to the world? What if my paintings are not worth anything at all? How have I made my own life valuable?
The pressure here can be soul-crushing. Paralyze creativity, wake you in your sleep-- put a complete halt on any free flowing thoughts you may have been working with. One of the greatest lessons I have learned this year, and even for my life-- is to begin living a life that is value based.
When attending Fall Break Co. a few months ago, speaker Rocky Garza dove into the deep thoughts of identity, roles, and value-based living. While writing this post, I went back to my field notes from his workshop.
For one of the exercises, I had written, "I am not good enough to create something of value."
This word has come full circle for me. It has always been my worst enemy. My greatest fear, my paralysis. As artists, I feel we will continue to struggle with it yearly (daily, even)-- hoping and praying and working in order to shut up those voices of doubt.
"Value-based living trumps doubt. Trumps fear." -Rocky Garza
2. Boundaries
Boundaries. Comfort Zones. People may create a box and place you in it-- often we even do it to ourselves. We naturally long for comfort. Remaining where we feel needed, loved, and valued. The safety of a straight path may feel welcoming at many times in our lives.
This past year was a year of boundary breaking; in all areas of my life. I had traveled through out college and earlier years of my life, but had put a stop on it when "real life" kicked in. Graduation, pressure to find a career, bills. I stopped painting. I stopped drawing. I lost myself. There were years of stillness.
One day, I allowed myself to fall back into who I was. It was a slow process, (it is still a process) but a magnificent one. Traveling to three countries in just a backpack, gaining the creative insight that I thirsted for. Moving 1000 miles from everyone and everything I know to began something new. Something raw, uncomfortable. Leaving my full time teaching career to welcome creativity back into my life; in the form that I loved so much. Having the strength to push fear aside every. damn. day. by setting goals, putting myself + my work out into the world, and by LOVING MY LIFE.
Life begins only outside of our comfort zone.
3. Attachment
Is there such a thing as a healthy form of attachment? I have never been one to long for material attachments-- my family hadn't raised us in such a way. My much greater problem has always been holding onto emotional baggage; past experiences, pain, and even people. Occurrences that have been trapped inside of me for years, even-- being carried and dragged along as if they have a right to my current mental and emotional state. It can be so unbearably heavy.
The root of all heartache is this brutal form of attachment. Of course, these emotional responses are what make us human; and emotional depth and understanding is truly a beautiful thing. However, once you experience a realization of an unhealthy attachment, it's imperative that we begin taking small steps each day to free ourselves of that weight. Begin questioning each attachment; work towards finding out why you are clinging so desperately to certain things. This word is a goal I will be striving towards for perhaps the rest of my life. One day at a time..
4. Authenticity
Remaining dedicated to our truest self, in a world where so many tell you who you should be. There are so many external forces in today's society that push and pull us in a million directions.
The key to happiness. The meaning of success. The definition of beauty. The list goes on and on.
Defining five core values, and remaining true to these factors has changed each and every decision I make on a daily basis. If any of these decisions lead me astray from my core five, it's not meant for me. Slowly compromising what is most important to you will eventually lead to a change in who you are. It can be extremely difficult at times to stand your ground; but remaining authentic to that original voice is really all we have. We are all human. We all feel. We all make mistakes, we all long for acceptance. Authenticity is such a powerful characteristic to have in a world filled with lost connection.
5. Expectation
A heavy word. One that many of us have been dragging around our entire lives. Worrying about how others perceive us. Allowing others to determine our ambitions, deepest desires, and outlook on life overall. Walking on eggshells, holding our breathe. Embarrassed to speak the truth or tell others how we are feeling. Without even knowing, many of us have had decisions made for us most of our lives. Others planting expectations of what is wrong/right, successful/failure. I ended the last half of 2016 by consciously digging out those hidden expectations-- those that others may have placed earlier in my life-- and chosen to rid myself of anything less than my true longings.
"Being an artist isn't a real job.."
"Aren't you worried about those tattoos closing doors for you in the future?"
"Being confident as a young woman can give off the wrong impression.."
"Spending money to travel rather than settle down is so irresponsible.."
"Aren't you going to start trying to have kids soon? The older you get..."
All of them, said to me at one point or another. Lodged in my brain, re-emerging during times of doubt. Even as children, these expectations began to settle and take weight in our lives. This will continue to be an uphill battle, but once it is recognized-- we can begin to measure our own values and reach our own individual height of happiness.
Staying true to this five word exercise each year has changed the way I view the positive and negative experiences that may be taking place through out the course of this life. Dedicating time to focus on the lessons you've learned, areas of growth for the future, and accomplishments of a time period is essential to the human spirit. Cheers to 2017!
Creativity Everywhere- Choosing To Prevail
An interview with portrait photographer, Torii Bridges of 'Native Dreamer Photography'
"It's incredible how the push of a button can capture a moment, a memory made still, a story waiting to be told. The older I get, the deeper my roots grow into my art, the more I cherish the thousands of photos from my childhood. I've been so fortunate to be raised in a family where everyday moments were made magic by simply pushing a button and documenting life. Every first, every scratch, every haircut or crash, every emotion, every devotion, all made a celebration. It is so easy to forget the millions of blessings in our lives, but to see them and touch them and relive them through photographs is unlike anything else. "
As a full-time photographer and creative, Torii devotes her energy to capturing intimate moments in time. She has been through more than most will ever have to endure in a lifetime, and continues to embrace the spontaneity of life each and every day. When I relocated from New York, Torii and I met by chance of fate. The first time we ever hung out, Torii graciously offered to take me on a creative retreat with her. (but seriously, are you an angel?) The second time we ever hung out, we were camping and sharing a cot over a span of four days. Over the course of this week, we talked about deep, messy, uncomfortable life. We cried, we laughed, we created-- drank wine and danced in fields wearing flower crowns. (that she made from wildflowers, of course) This woman radiates a genuine love for life; for others. She knows loss, and has lived through hell to be the human she is today. Have you ever met someone, and instantly felt an impact? A footprint, left in your life forever? Torii is absolutely that for me. Read her interview to understand a little more about this BIG love and admiration-- you won't regret it xx
Introduce yourself and tell us a little more about the passion you are pursuing.
Hi my loves, Torii Bridges here. Aquarian born wanderer, full time dreamer and visual storyteller of Native Dreamer Photography. People are my passion and images, my love language. Ever since I can remember, when first interacting with people my mind does this overtake where I start to examine below the surface level, to get to know the depths of them as individuals. What they thirst for, what makes their heart beat faster, what makes their mouth water, what moments make them fully come alive. I strive to see what people are passionate about. Where do they go in their dreams? The way they tell stories. The stories they have to tell. This characteristic has been an incredible advantage when working so closely with individuals. Some call me a photographer, but I prefer the title, Visual Storyteller. My purpose with my camera is so much more than "Stand there. Do this. Smile. Click. Here is a happy photo. Enjoy." The art of photography, to me, is based off of the art of storytelling. Something that has been near and dear to my heart for as long as I can remember.
Prior to getting your hands on a camera, what pushed you to pursue the creative process and sharing yourself with others?
The outdoors has always been my home; my safe haven. Barefoot wandering with twigs and leaves intertwined in my nappy untamed head. My soul has always found it's purest serenity in the depths of the wild. Nature untouched, so majestic in every detail. From the playful whispers of the winds, to the graceful singing of the birds, the gentle crackle of the leaves beneath my feet, the roaring oceans waves to the trickling rivers and streams. There is a story to be told within each detail in every aspect of our creation. It merely blows my mind. These details have always spoken to me. As a child, I spent all of my free time roaming the lands of our house. 64 acres perfectly tucked away without another house in sight. Our "neighbors" consisted of frolicking horses, roaming cows and invasive genies who could not seem to resist the temptation of our land. Daily we would walk down our long windy driveway to catch the bus. Our sweet kitten, Smokey, would follow and the genies would greet us before the bus ever could. That's where the first story of the day would begin. Smokey's sweet purrs and dancing tail prancing with us down the long winding rocky trail, side by side with squawking polka dotted birds chasing our tiny feet, until we would say our goodbyes and enter the giant yellow rolling room where we are greeted by even louder squawking children. Everyday I was creating without knowing it. Throughout my youth I continued to tell stories in any way I could. Drawing endless play by plays, painting emotions until I felt they had been released, constructing creation with heart for the ones I love, journaling into the wee hours of the night. This was my day to day through my youth. It wasn't until my teenage years when I saved up enough to buy my first camera, that I immediately realized the power of this tool. My camera was a way for me to bring all of my work together; my writings, drawing, painting and creations, and with one tool, tell a story.
Knowing you personally, I know you have overcome quite a few obstacles to stand where you are today. Is there a specific time or experience that was particularly difficult for you?
Stand, literally. Ahah. Life is a crazy beautiful thing. We are given challenges day after day to help mold an shape us into the next version of ourselves. Life changing moments that literally test our strength and expand our limits. My 21st year here on earth started messy. On my actual birthday on a below freezing January night, I fell and shattered my ankle. That followed by surgery and 5 months of non-weight bearing movement. That was rough. Physically and mentally. Rough. I had just started pursuing my career and it was thrown into a complete halt. I had gone from a completely self-reliant, independent young adult, to living with my mother, being waited on hand and foot. Literally. However, with that came a genuine reconnection with my mother and a respect for her I had never known. It brought us together. My cast came off that June and life fell back into place. Loads more adventuring occurred and off I went to pursuing my next big dream. I was ready for a change of pace, a big move. I spent the month of August in my soon to be home, Oregon. The move was scheduled the day after Christmas and it couldn't come soon enough. I was determined to spend all of my remaining day in Virginia seeing all there was to see and connecting with as many people as I could while I still lived there.
"It was magic, until it was no longer.
What went from a beautiful day with friends.
quickly turned into the most tragic day of our lives..."
Then, one horrid November day, I met up with the sweetest group of Lynchburg friends to have a little photo adventure. The start of the day was absolutely incredible, the group connected in a way I had never truly experienced. We talked about life and death, the pursuit of our dreams, happiness and self-love. We climbed buildings, drank coffee, explored the city market and even made the largest leaf pile you have ever seen only to jump in it over an over. We took photos the whole day through and the joy simply beams from them. You guys, it was magic, until it was no longer. What went from a beautiful day with friends quickly turned into the most tragic day of our lives. While exploring a city park we walked down onto the train tracks. The most beautiful sight you've seen where a train trestle connects two mountains together-- hundreds of feet above a ravine. Sounds like every photographers dream right? Everybody loves a good photo train track photo, right? Clueless us--ignorant, mindless, clueless us. We walked out onto the trestle and within minutes a train came and forever rocked out world. I watched a dear friend pass that day. I looked a train in the lights nearly 50ft from my face. I saw the end. I could have reached out and touched it. I thought of everyone I’ve ever loved, of everyone that has loved me. I visualized my mom coming to identify what was left of me after the train had done its damage, and I jumped.
You guys, I don’t know how I'm here. I used to search for an answer to that but it is far beyond me. I lost some pieces of myself that day. But to be given another second, another minute, hour. Another day. Another year. I will never be able to explain it.
4. Do you feel this obstacle opened your eyes as a human and a creative-- pushed you to value your passions pursue them more openly?
Oh my, it opened up so many things for me. It was crazy at first. Numbing even, then one day-- I braved the photos. The images we had taken throughout our entire day. I opened them, and click by click the tears fell, but so came the laughter, the joy, the indescribable beauty of the day. They were like medicine to my broken heart, they provided more comfort than any family member or friend could, they were a calming blanked to my shaken body... and that’s when it hit me. That’s when I knew, without a doubt, this is what I was meant to do. To create lifelong memories for others. To give the gift of photographical medicine. To gift laughter and love to others through images and the beauty in a moment. To tell their stories as well as my own.
If I have learned anything from all of this it is that life is messy. It is challenging, painful, defeating and so very dangerous, but everyday you are given is SO DAMN BEAUTIFUL. Every single breath is a gift and I don’t take a minute of it for granted. This opened my eyes to so much as a human and as a artist. Remember smells, people’s laughter, the way someone’s hair blows in the wind. Put your phone down. Be present. Go climb mountains. Don’t accept defeat. Challenge those who doubt you. Never give up on what you believe in. Take road trips. Run through fields. Have sleepovers. Build forts. Tickle people. Have photos taken. Travel. Write. Read. Love unconditionally, with every ounce of your being. Go out of your way to brighten someone’s day. Call your parents. Give compliments. Always say I love you if you feel it. You guys, I mean it. You never know when you may reach the end. Make sure you love the life you have lived.
What about portrait photography do you feel is the most fulfilling?
The act of storytelling without a single word attached. People invite me in to some of their most personal life moments. Seasons of change, transition and often, times awakening. They open their hearts and truly let me in to a moment, in to a memory. Because if my clients trust in me, I am able to tell a story of their life, their love, and of timeless emotion. It is undoubtedly the most humbling experience, every time.
Has there been a particular someone/group of people who have inspired you to continue on your journey when times were tough?
I wish my answer was different than it is. I wish I could say my friends and family have been my biggest supporters since day one of my journey as a visual storyteller, that they have always encouraged my pursuit or even recognized it, but I would be lying. They have always acknowledged my creative heart. They have openly discussed how I see the world through different lens, since I was a young child. But when it comes to a career, they still don't understand it. I come from a vey small town of the south, where tradition is the only road openly understood. For years now they have only seen photography as a hobby, at most. They acknowledge my talent, but more often than not I am being asked, "What's next? What am I doing for work? When am I going to get a real job?" I chuckle when I say it out loud. I honestly don't give it to much thought or let it get to me much, anymore. I think it's just a different time from what they know. We live in an age where we can aggressively pursue our passion and create a career based around that. They are all laborers, manual, hands on. Work a job you have to, to get the bills paid and enjoy your "hobbies" on the side. It used to be really lonely, but I have accepted we just see it through different eyes. Though I must say, as of recent they have come around a lot more. Addressing my work as more than just a hobby, but a career. On a happy plus, more recently I have come to know the hearts of other creatives who are also passionately pursuing their careers and anytime we have questions or doubts, we come together to lift each other up. I am eternally grateful for these ladies. My soul sisters, you know who you are.
We often discuss both the beauty and ugliness of social media. I know you and I value the word "authenticity"-- can you touch more on this subject as a photographer, business owner, and... human?
"Young boys and girls, artist and creatives, constantly swarmed by people just like them, but perceived as better, more loved, more beautiful, more talented. I think that is tough if people fall for the spell of it all.."
Oh social media, where to begin. Honestly, social media has transformed into a beautiful thing for creatives and small business in the past year. It is a powerful tool to share your passion with the world, and it is damn good, but where there is beauty, ugliness lurks closely behind. Social media can be more destructive than it can be helpful. The comparison game became a real living breathing thing when social media, instagram especially, exploded. Young boys and girls, artist and creatives, constantly swarmed by people just like them, but perceived as better, more loved, more beautiful, more talented. I think that is tough if people fall for the spell of it all. I remember when the hashtag #liveauthentic first came out. It was like a revolution telling the world to be you, be real, realness is beauty. But the genuine response was brief and soon after the staged photos returned. Beautiful lattes placed perfectly next to plants and trendy sunglasses. Staged photos, only for the sake of the photo. I couldn't image growing up in a time like that, and I am only 23. To be authentic is to be true to yourself, without pretenses or standards of what the world thinks it is supposed to mean. The definition of the word is literally "of undisputed origin; genuine." If people spent half more time honing in on their genuine hearts, and less time on social media, the world would have an insane amount of beautiful inspiring one of a kind people.
Can you share more about the non-glamorous side of working as a photographer?
For me, it is undoubtedly the technical aspect-- aside from my giant camera and lovely editing systems. The fact that every interaction with my clients is solely internet based, is overwhelming to me. Emails, contracts, direct messages, Facebook messages, comments, and even text messages. I have to write to do list just to keep the order of who to respond to first and address pieces of the conversation one by one. It sounds super silly for someone living and working in the age of technology, I know. I grew up in the boonies with dial up internet and shotty cell reception until the age of 16. So internet interaction naturally is not my preferred form of connection. Communication to me is so much deeper. I crave genuine connection with my clients. I prefer meet ups, coffee dates, and phone conversations. The detail and the beauty is in hearing someone’s voice and watching their facial expressions throughout a conversation. That type of connection is unmatched.
You share the same love of travel and experiences as many other creatives. Do you feel exploring (past + present) has influenced your drive and your work?
Honestly, I feel exploring is essential to the heart behind any creative. When we travel to new places we learn so much about the world around us, we learn new depths to our own self, and with that comes a deeper form of expression. My initial drive for pursuing photography as a way of storytelling came when my 20 year old self set off on a four moth solo trip across the country with no schedule, no itinerary, and no plans apart from exploring lands unknown to my eyes. It was during that time that I realized that images can be a way for me to allow there to go back into a genuine moment and feel what it was they were feeling. My work has always a reflection of my adventurous spirit. Whether it is for a session or for a day of soul searching I am constantly traveling to new places. Exploring the ends and outs of every location I visit. In many ways, it sets my soul on fire.
To see more of Torii's travels, visit her on Instagram
If you could offer one piece of advice to aspiring portrait photographer creatives-- what would it be?
Love yourself first, believe in your ability, do not compare yourself or your work to others and never stop chasing what sets your soul on fire. If photography is that for you, pursue it wholeheartedly and it will flourish into more than you could ever imagine. You are enough, you are worthy and there is no one else in the world like you. Do not let your mind be clouded by the ideas of society. You are you. All your flawed, weird, quirky, imperfect characteristic are what make you you. That is magic. That is genuine beauty. You are living art.
photo credit: @themangomarket
For more heartfelt, authentic conversation-- be sure to follow Torii on Instagram @explore_my_stories + keep up on her latest work by visiting www.NativeDreamerPhotography.com
My Traveling Sketchbook: Coastal Inspiration
I believe that we are truly unable to grow standing still. When we open ourselves to new places, experiences and perspectives-- change begins to occur deep within. There is so much world; ready and willing to push your boundaries, re-ignite a sense of curiosity and wonder. We are so insignificant and small in the trueness of nature.
And it's magnificent.
All images captured on the coast of Monterosso al Mare, Italy and Isle of Capri, Italy
What's New In The Studio: Instagram Pop-Up Shop
Three Coastal Seascapes, Now Available for Purchase
Compliments of "Contemporary Artists Coterie"
Since diving into the concepts of water movement and texture, "Undercurrents" has taken a prevailing force in my life. It has been a beautiful challenge to capture and portray the vast movement the sea has to offer. For this special Pop Up Show, I decided to push my limits further; by confining myself to working small and limiting my supplies to only palette knives.
Painting on a small space has always been difficult for me as an artist. Large areas feel inviting, less intimidating, and forgiving. I enjoy being loud with my markings; splattering, pouring, and manipulating the paint over an entire surface area. With a smaller area, I begin to question everything. It feels much more delicate.
In my last blog post, the term "comfort zone" was referenced consistently. Since coming home from my creative retreat, I have made it a serious goal to continue placing myself in scenarios that may bring discomfort for a short while; all in order to benefit my personal growth. This doesn't mean selling all I own to travel the world. Some drastic, life-changing moment where I have an "AH-HA" feeling and never look back.
Little steps. And working small for this Pop Up Shop seemed fitting in the right direction.
Before I could even begin focusing on composition, color began flooding into my process. Working through several palettes in sketches, I found the fit that portrayed the feeling I was aiming for: tranquility.
Creating these movements of water was both thrilling and humbling. I was hopeful to create three pieces that could work harmoniously together, while still being strong as separate components. The flow of the first two pieces felt natural. My mind knew exactly where it was headed and thoughts translated to canvas smoothly. The third, however, is a part of the process that we all experience-- just maybe not always the most honest part of the creative process.
The third and final piece, I went back to for several weeks on end. It was gessoed over twice, and at one point- tossed aside and re-stretched onto a completely new canvas. But at the end of it all, I stood back, proud of what I had pushed through.
Moments of doubt, frustration, questioning of worthiness. All for this brilliant little piece of work. I often become so attached to these pieces after all of the emotional input that is needed to complete them-- I hope you enjoy viewing them as much as I did, creating them.
My Traveling Sketchbook: Experiencing "Fall Break Co."
Fall Break Co.
presented by Asheville Folk
On September 12th, dozens of people from across the country packed their bags to embark on a creative retreat in the mountains of Asheville, North Carolina. With a bag full of fall clothes, a few camping supplies, camera, sketchbooks and nerves-- I set off on a four and a half hour drive to attend the first ever, Fall Break Co. An evening filled with cocktail hour, delicious local food, live music, and a styled farm table dinner led to hours filled with engaging conversation, excitement, and new friends. Yurts filled with cozy furniture, gift bags and lanterns, all ready to be home for the next several days. String lights cover the property, warm in the evening glow. Cozy spaces are everywhere; filled with plants, blankets, unique chairs and inspirational sights. Candle flames flicker and dance on the dinner table, as over 70 strangers come together and redefine the meaning of "community".
And suddenly, in a place you've never been before;
you feel at home..
How often do you truly step out of your comfort zone?
what were these four days in the mountains truly like? What type of experiences did each day bring?
After sleeping beneath the stars in a cozy yurt-- filled with furniture, lanterns, and fresh drinking water-- you awake to the crisp morning air. Choose how to rejuvenate your body and mind with yoga in the field or a self guided hike through the mountains. You are greeted with warm smiles for a buffet style breakfast, all served by local cafes and small businesses.
Sip coffee or mimosas as you sit through your first keynote speaker of the day. Whether they are a motivational speaker, entrepreneur or practicing artist; it is a wonderful way to begin focusing your thoughts. The next few hours are filled with intimate, small group workshops of your choice. Social media concepts, styling courses, public speaking, goal setting, and branding/marketing are wonderful courses to engage your mind and motivate.
Relax and reflect with hours of free times by reading a book in the gazebo, chatting with new friends, or creating with new sources of inspiration. Just before dinner, one-on-one workshops are offered. Portfolio reviews, goal setting courses, website branding-- there are many one-on-one sessions to choose from that allow you to focus on your product and your areas of growth. There are even headshots offered by local photographers for professional website development.
Dinner here is the epitome of community. The farm-style table was glamorously set and styled each night with unique place settings, flickering candles, hand stitched napkins, and watercolor name tags. Food is provided by local chefs and is nothing short of extraordinary. Wine is poured and laughter is heard. Before you know it, sundown has come and gone and conversation continues.
After dark, choose to wander to the bonfire, photobooth, or cozy spaces for quiet. There is plenty of wine, marshmallows, and live music each night. You find yourself taking it all in, moment by moment, with dozens of others just like yourself.
And what a dream it has been..
10 valueable Lessons learned at fall break co.
1. Stepping out of your comfort zone is necessary
At some point, we all begin to crave routine. As children, we are fearless. Constantly taking risks, leaping, falling, failing, and trying new skills without fear of the future. As adults, whether we realize it or not, familiarity is comfortable. As humans, we are wired for comfort. Any way that we can avoid stress, we do it. Something as simple as taking the same route to work each morning or ordering the same item off the menu are examples of simple routines we carry day in and day out.
For creatives, stepping out of our comfort zone often means personal growth. Each speaker at Fall Break Co. may have come from different backgrounds and had different goals for their future-- but they all spoke on the importance of taking risks. Accepting failure as an insight. And constantly changing perspective.
After moving 700 miles from home in July, I have slowly become a creature of habit again-- even with such an immense amount of change. When I was invited to attend Fall Break Co, four days away from my fiancé and safe little apartment did seem uncomfortable. "What if the people aren't welcoming?" "What if my camping experience is awful?" "What if people judge me and my work?" "What if I get homesick?"
Spend your life asking the "what if's" and succumbing to fear-- or push yourself and be uneasy for a short while. It all melts away the moment you realize you've made a life changing decision, one to step out of your box and live a life you're not only proud of; but feeling refreshed while doing so.
2. Be gentle with yourself
A lesson that resonated through out each workshop at Fall Break Co. is the need to be patient with not only your business or passion-- but yourself. Success takes time, and sometimes it comes in little victories. Nothing great happens overnight. There will be mishaps. There will be questioning, doubt and maybe even rejection. However, this does not give you the right to beat yourself down.
"You are not for everyone"
The sooner we accept this thought, the more confident and accepting we become. Not everyone will want your product. Not everyone will flock to see your galleries, listen to your performance, or buy your new package. Does that mean you have failed? Of course not! It is impossible to market to everyone, and also unhealthy. Brand yourself on what's true to you, as well as how you want others to perceive you. What makes you unique? Embrace it, rather than bury it. And when that rejection does happen, take a deep breathe and know that all steps don't need to be forward. Your showing up, day in and day out, and that will continue to count for something. Be gentle with yourself, and remember that balance is key.
3. Find your tribe
A quote that resinated through out the four days, "You are the five people you surround yourself with most". It immediatley made an impact on me. How many of us have family, friends, even coworkers, who participate in our individual journey? Support our dreams, ambitions, and the truest versions of ourselves? If you have those people, you are grateful. If you do not, are you spending your time wisely?
Are those around you inspiring you to be the best version of yourself? Are they consistent, true, honest-- and willing to accept all parts of who you are; and not just the pretty parts?
A great lesson learned is to always find your tribe. People you can count on. Like-minded individuals who will push and pull just when you need it, where you need it. This doesn't mean painters need to befriend only painters. Or musicians only other musicians. But seek out those who have similar values to you. People you can lean on, express your thoughts to, stand by you when times are tough. Luckily for me, I have met many incredible people through out my life who support me on a daily basis. And not just in the light-- but the dark times as well. Fall Break Co. also brought several new sisters into my life, and I am forever grateful for their open hearts and warm smiles.
"SURROUND YOURSELF WITH INSPIRING BEINGS"
4. Value-based living is a must
"Being a human is hard. What if we could start every day with a clear picture of our identity as humans?"
Speaker and entrepeneur Rocky Garza pushed attendees to dig down to the deepest part of themselves while redefining identity. Without an identity, Rocky reminds us that there can be no product. In order to begin creating a product, you must be willing to identify who you are.
Take time to reinvent and locate your values. What can you never give up for someone or something else? Rocky encourages us to lead with these values, rather than the roles we hold in this life. Roles have the tendency to swallow us and push and pull our values, when truly, in order to succeed with our trust self-- we must place value-based living above all.
Check out Rocky's work at Staff Retreat Co. and find out how you can benefit from his incredible program + retreat
Rocky Garza working with photographer Tori Ray in a one-on-one session
5. Connection is key
Connect. Connect. Connect.
In any art form, or form of life, for that matter-- there is a constant need for connection. What exactly is it that draws you to a certain piece of art work? A photograph? A place? Or even people? We tend to gravitate towards any of these based on an initial feeling or connection. If you're an artist or small business owner, let people see your passions!
"What is your why?!"
Be open about your experiences. Your process. Your goals. Why do you do what you do? What inspires you most? What led you down this path? Share your experiences with people. Post a video of your process, blog about a new project your working on. Why? Because people love to make that initial connection. To notice your core values, accept and relate to them. Stories make you human, they make you relatable. Be sure you're consistent and communicating that story effectively.
"People don't buy what you do, but why you do it.."
The table is a place for genuine conversation, equality, and balance.
6. Success is a lifestyle; set goals
"Life is more than something we just 'to-do' list through.." SaraJane Case
While attending Fall Break Co, I was fortunate enough to attend a goal setting workshop by the lovely SarahJane Case. Within the first few seconds, I related to her thoughts immediately. She mentions the over emphasis on "the hustle" and reminds us that life and success are all about balance. What a breathe of fresh air, right?
After completing several exercises in this workshop, it was clear that I enjoy writing and creating lists. But are these lists actually benefitting me? Sara gave excellent pointers and strategies on how to make success a lifestyle, rather than a destination. Redefine success, and recognize it in all areas of your life, in little victories. Create intentions, plans and resolutions every 30 days in all areas of your life-- not just for your business. Failure isn't failure if you are learning from it. Accept the small setbacks, and allow them to take you places. Reflect often. Follow through on your day-to-day habits and goals. Without a doubt, they will lead you to new places. Intentional or not!
SaraJane Case is an incredible blogger + life consultant who will help you reach your highest potential. Give her some love and check out her program!
7. Authenticity isn't dead
While branding yourself, focus mostly on what is most important + how you want people to feel. It's easy these days to become so involved in marketing and curating the perfect Instagram feed, that you begin to stop sharing your true self. Some may be perfectly fine with never sharing their personal life or thoughts with the world-- and that is okay too.
For me, I find it hard to swallow that I'm not "supposed" to share anything other than my work on my social media, or never honestly share thoughts on a tough day or project. It was a breathe of fresh air to hear each and every speaker refer to authenticity.
Yes, your website must be professionally done in order to bring in clients. Yes, beautifully styled compositions on Instagram will get you more exposure. These things can easily be done-- all while still remaining true to who you are. What makes you unique? Show it off and don't apologize. Wear what you want. Share intimate parts of your creative process. Don't be afraid to show some photos of your personal life, tastefully, in the same color scheme as the rest of your feed. If you have a fear, a goal you've met, or a thought that seems 'imperfect' for the world to see, it's okay. You're human. People will appreciate these thoughts once in awhile. Never lose yourself to the curated world we are currently living in.
Creatives in the middle of Sarah Snyder's "Food Styling and Photography" workshop. This workshop fits perfectly in the essence of authenticity. Styling is a work of art in itself-- but there is still room to show your process, what you're passionate about, and why you do what you do.
"Food Styling and Photography" workshop taught + created by the talented Sarah of @formationsofmentalobjects
8. Your are what you believe
Entrepreneur + social media expert Tyler McCall gives a workshop on social media branding. Check out his marketing strategy programs + thepersonacreative!
Speaker + Author Blaise Foret works in a small group session to give tips on public speaking and find your voice. Check him out as a co-founder of @ashevillefolk!
If you're like me, you may have struggled (and continue to struggle) with confidence in your daily life. The worthiness of who you are. In a relationship, at your work, for taking risks-- if you aren't sure of yourself, how can you convince others to be?
As artists and entrepreneurs, how you view yourself radiates to not only everyone around you-- but CLIENTS as well. If you start to believe in your inability to perform, succeed, and be enough, your work will become toxic. How can you possibly succeed and convince others of your work, if you, yourself, are weary of your product? Be CONFIDENT! You are unique, You are enough, You are human. Perfection is not the end goal.
Speaker and sculptural artist Matt Tommey gave an incredible insight to this entire thought process as an artist. "Define your new normal."
Rather than being surprised when you sell work or book new clients, begin to define this by saying "this is normal now". Define this normalcy on a positive note, and change how you visualize yourself and your worth.
9. Align with your design
As the final keynote speaker, artist and entrepreneur Matt Tommey concluded Fall Break Co. on such a powerful note. For me, his speech was incredibly relatable-- with too many great points to name. One of many favorite moments for me, was his phrasing, "As an artist, you don't have to live life in the weeds."
One of Tommey's emphasized lessons was to always follow your design as a human. What do you feel you were meant to be doing? A calling; the part of your soul that sets you apart, makes you unique. If you feel a burning passion towards something, follow it. Whatever it is that you believe you were created to do-- make a plan, and continue on that path. How can you possibly build all you were created for if you're placing your energy elsewhere?
He stresses the importance of non-conformity. That if all of earth's population decided to stop following the norms and dreams of society-- we would all make this world a better, healthier place. According to Tommey, the universe is set up for you to thrive, as long as you accept it. Allow success and growth to come into your life, rather than fighting it. If you feel you are designed to be a creative, do not conform. Be yourself in a world where individuality is so desperately needed.
Give a look to Matt Tommey and his incredible sculptural work, as well as his three published books regarding the creative process. What an inspiring artist and man.
10. Find Joy
Motivational speaker and interior designer, Ruthie Lindsey, said it best. Choose joy, and choose it everyday. Listening to this incredible woman speak, it was difficult to imagine how she could stand there-- so effortlessly (or so it seemed) with this beautiful smile spread across her face. With not a dry eye in the crowd, Ruthie told her story of heartbreak-- a series of unfortunate events that made for agonizing amounts of both physical and emotional pain. But the beautiful thing about Ruthie, is that she tells it true. She is the epitome of honest and does not fear being vulnerable. Ruthie describes years in bed, hoping and praying for her life to end. A tale of pain and depression, all that she cared for in her life seemed pointless. Worthless. Unattainable. The pain was just too great. Though many of us are fortunate enough to not have gone through something as traumatic as Ruthie, so many can also relate. Was there a time where it felt easier to give in? Throw in the towel and decide you weren't worth the struggle?
Finding strength each day is beauty in itself. We always have a choice, no matter how unbearable it may feel. Ruthie is the epitome of strength. Rather than letting her pain define her, she chose to stand back up and re-create a life she imagined. A broken and damaged girl, blossomed into a successful designer and inspiration to many across the globe. Listening to her speak was magic. Her smile so genuine, a love for life so true. Being present with Ruthie through these few days in the mountains creates an unimaginable impact. Remember to choose joy, no matter the circumstance. No matter what life may throw at you. Each day, you have a choice. How beautiful life can be, with a mindset filled with positive thoughts..
"Kintsukuroi:
to repair with gold; the art of repairing pottery with gold or live lacquer and understanding that the piece is more beautiful for having been broken"
Photograph by Torii Bridges at nativedreamerphotography.com
Just a few of the wonderful souls who continue to inspire me after our meeting at Fall Break Co. As shown in order above: Lauren Krieger, Tori Ray, Torii Bridges
Thank you, to Asheville Folk
for giving your all and inviting us to sit down at the table with you..
Gift boxes created by the incredibly talented and thoughtful "Linen and Clover"